Somatic Therapies for Creating Safety in the Body 

Somatic therapies are gentle, body-centered approaches to healing that honor the lived experiences, cultural identities, and resilience of all people. Multicultural communities, disabled folks and folks with different abilities, gender expansive families and individuals, and people of color can benefit from learning techniques which support the nervous system to move from sympathetic (activation) into parasympathetic (rest and digest).  

State violence, lawlessness, and ongoing human rights abuses carried out or sanctioned by government systems do not only exist as political realities; they are experienced viscerally in the bodies of those most impacted. For immigrants, people of color, and gender-expansive people, chronic exposure to surveillance, threat, discrimination, and institutional betrayal can condition the nervous system to remain in states of heightened vigilance, shutdown, or exhaustion. When safety cannot be reliably found in social systems meant to protect, the body adapts by prioritizing survival—often through hyperarousal, dissociation, or constriction—responses that may later be misunderstood or pathologized rather than recognized as adaptive. Over time, this ongoing stress can erode the body’s capacity for regulation, rest, and connection, particularly when harm is cumulative and intergenerational. Understanding these impacts through a somatic lens invites compassion and accountability, recognizing that nervous system responses are not individual failures, but embodied reflections of systemic violence and the absence of collective safety. 

Grounded in the early work of Wilhelm Reich and Peter Levine, and later shaped by mental health practitioners and community facilitators Resmaa MenakemPat Ogden, and Bessel van der Kolk, somatic therapy recognizes that trauma, especially trauma related to chronic stress, systemic oppression, and state violence, is not only held in our thoughts, but in our bodies and nervous systems. Somatic approaches may include practices such as tracking bodily sensations, breathwork, grounding exercises, mindful movement, and gentle awareness of posture or tension, all offered at a pace that supports choice and consent. These therapies help individuals understand how survival responses like fight, flight, freeze, or shutdown can become activated during high stress, and provide practical tools for emotional regulation and nervous system stabilization. By strengthening the body’s capacity to sense safety, even in moments of heightened stress or exposure to ongoing threat, somatic therapies support people in reconnecting with their bodies as sources of protection, wisdom, and embodied resilience. 

Creating a Sense of Safety in the Body 

Somatic practices you might explore with a therapist 

When people begin somatic therapy, one of the first goals is not processing emotions or memories, but helping the body feel a little safer. Safety in the nervous system often comes from small, repeated experiences of regulation, choice, and gentleness. 

Below are examples of practices a somatic therapist might guide you through—always at your pace, with permission to stop, adjust, or simply notice. 

Box Breathing (Finding Rhythm and Predictability) 

You might be invited to explore a simple breathing rhythm, such as box breathing. This isn’t about forcing relaxation, but about offering your nervous system a predictable pattern

You could try inhaling slowly through the nose for a count of four, pausing briefly at the top of the inhale, exhaling for four, and pausing again before the next breath. As you do this, you might notice how your chest, belly, or throat respond. 

A therapist may encourage you to adjust the counts so they feel comfortable—or to stop entirely if your body signals “that’s enough.” The goal is not perfect breathing, but listening to how your body responds to rhythm and pause

Bilateral Tapping (Supporting Regulation Through Alternation) 

Bilateral tapping involves gently tapping one side of the body and then the other, often on the thighs, arms, or shoulders. 

You might alternate left and right at a pace that feels soothing rather than mechanical. Some people find this creates a sense of grounding or presence, while others simply notice the sensation of touch. 

In somatic therapy, this practice is often paired with curiosity: 

  • What do you notice in your body as the tapping continues? 
  • Does one side feel different than the other? 
  • Would slowing down or stopping feel better right now? 

The emphasis is always on choice and agency, not pushing through discomfort. 

Gentle Rocking (Inviting Safety Through Movement) 

Rocking is a natural self-regulation movement many humans instinctively use, especially in times of stress. 

You might rock slowly forward and back in a chair, side to side, or even shift your weight gently while standing. A therapist may invite you to find a rhythm that feels calming—or simply neutral. 

Rather than asking “Does this relax me?” the invitation is often: 

  • Does this movement feel supportive? 
  • Is there a sense of settling, or simply less effort? 

Sometimes the body responds with a deeper breath, a sigh, or a subtle sense of ease. Sometimes it doesn’t—and both are okay. 

Orienting Through the Breath (Tracking Sensation Without Control) 

Instead of structured breathing, you may be guided to simply notice where the breath already moves

You might place a hand on your chest or belly and observe: 

  • Where do you feel the breath most clearly? 
  • Does the breath feel shallow, deep, uneven, or steady? 
  • What happens when you allow it to be exactly as it is? 

This practice supports emotional regulation by building tolerance for sensation, without needing to change it. Over time, this can help the nervous system learn that sensation itself is not dangerous. 

Self-Soothing Touch (Using Contact to Support Safety) 

Self-soothing touch can be as simple as placing a hand over your heart, wrapping your arms around yourself, or resting a hand on your cheek or neck. 

In somatic therapy, touch is always approached with consent—even with yourself. You might be encouraged to ask internally: 

  • Does this touch feel comforting, neutral, or uncomfortable? 
  • Would a different location or pressure feel better? 

The intention is not to force calm, but to offer the body a sense of containment and support, especially during emotional moments. 

Pendulation (Moving Between Ease and Activation) 

A somatic therapist may guide you to gently notice a place in your body that feels relatively calm or neutral, and then briefly notice an area that feels tense or activated—before returning to the calmer sensation. 

This back-and-forth helps the nervous system learn that it can move out of intensity and return to safety. Over time, this builds emotional resilience and regulation capacity. 

You are never asked to stay with discomfort longer than feels manageable. 

Meet Your Therapist: Clinician Spotlight Series –Riah

What are your favorite clients to work with (populations of special interest)? 

I enjoy working with folks from the BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ community, as well as those navigating multicultural and transnational identities, and neurodivergence. Many clients I work with come to counseling seeking new ways to connect—whether with themselves, their history, their loved ones, their current circumstances, or communities they belong to. I especially enjoy working with those who are navigating identity, deepening their understanding of their inner emotional worlds, and exploring how personal history, culture and systemic influences shape their experiences. 

What are one or two interventions that you enjoy using and have found to be supportive to Clients?

I draw from Emotion-Focused, Narrative, and Humanistic-Experiential Therapies. In a session, this might look like holding space for your emotional world, helping you find language to express your truths, and honoring the richness and complexity of your experiences. I also incorporate somatic therapy techniques into my work, because I believe that cultivating awareness of how our bodies hold and express emotion allows us to tap into a deeper level of understanding and healing.  

That said, I think that the co-created relationship between client and the therapist is just as important. Sharing our stories and giving voice to the tender parts of ourselves can be deeply vulnerable. In these moments, it makes all the difference to have a safe, trusting space where we can be met in that vulnerability. This is why I strive to always bring care, warmth, humor, presence, and compassion into my sessions. I hope that by showing up in my own humanness, you’ll feel invited to do the same.  

What artists, creators, mental health practitioners, healers, or practices help to guide, inform, and/or inspire your work as a therapist? 

I love learning from others, and I’m always seeking out new perspectives to guide my work— so this list is always updating! In this season of my work as a therapist, in addition Emotion-Focused, Narrative, Humanistic-Experiential, and Somatic Therapy, these are the folks, books, and practices I draw inspiration from currently: 

People 

  • Alok Vaid-Menon 
  • Christabel Mintah-Galloway, RN BSN 
  • Dr. Orna Guralnik, PsyD 
  • Simone Saunders, MSW, RSW 
  • Liz Rhea, LMSW 
  • Angela Han 

Books 

  • The Pain We Carry: Healing from Complex PTSD For People of Color, by Natalie Y. Gutiérrez 
  • Somatic Psychotherapy Toolbox, by Manuela Mischke-Reeds, MA LMFT 
  • Eloquent Rage: A Black Feminist Discovers Her Superpower, by Dr. Brittney Cooper, PhD 
  • For Brown Girls with Sharp Edges and Tender Hearts, by Prisca Dorcas Mojica Rodriguez 

Lastly, my own Thai cultural practices, rituals, and spirituality, passed down through my family, continue to serve as a source of grounding in my practice. 

What insurance(s) do you accept? 

I accept individuals and couples with Cigna and Evernorth, Providence, Kaiser (Out-of-Network), and Regence. I can also accept out of pocket payments at $130 per session. 

Hope in Dark Times: Building Resilience in Community  

Hope is more than just optimism. It’s the belief in the possibility of change, even when we can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. Snyder (2002) describes hope as the belief that we can influence our circumstances and find ways forward, even during difficult times. During times of socio-political stress, when injustice, violence, and systemic oppression feel unrelenting, hope can take many forms. For example, it can look like choosing to rest when the world demands urgency or showing up for your community despite living in an individualistic society. Hope turns into a collective resilience, reminding ourselves that even small acts of kindness, care, and connection can push back against despair. 

We are living through a time in which the government is defunding social programs which marginalized communities, and a great majority of American citizens depend on. The Trump Administration is weaponizing immigration and customs enforcement and employing militarized and fascist tactics to elicit fear and harm to people of color and families of mixed immigration status. The current administration has made it clear that their goal is to terrorize, regress, and control through fear tactics. The work of healing the collective and advocacy for groups who are most vulnerable to the violence and discrimination of white nationalist government officials and racist policies, everyone holds a responsibility for recognizing their relationship to others’ oppression.  

Scholars and theorists studying war “have long understood that when one can deplete the social capital of a group with whom one is in conflict; they are that much easier to take advantage of” (Tzu, 2008). Engagement is key for cultivating power in community: social capital as a means for resistance as well as resiliency building. Some forms of social capital are bonding, bridging, and linking, all forms of community engagement as a means for resourcing and strengthening through connection (Hansson et al., 2005). Bonding, bridging, and linking, looks like relationships and interdependence across varied social spheres in our lives, across work, social networks, and institutions. Social capital – built in community spaces of all shapes and forms – supports mental health and overall well-being and can be a coping tool for both the individual and the collective. When we engage with each other and build social capital, we connect with each other, and our agency, individually and collectively (Hansson et al., 2005).  

“Actively engaging with one’s community and society to create equitable change can play an important role in addressing individual stress while also contributing to a longer-term transformation of the root causes of the pain they are facing” (Bartlett et al., 2021). For marginalized groups and communities experiencing structural oppression and violence, social capital and resourcing in community care is not easily accessible, as these individuals and families are often in a state of survival. Systems of oppression directly impact these groups’ ability to develop social capital – interdependent resourcing and community building. One aspect of building resilience and empowerment is through education. Understanding structural violence can provide understanding and grounding for those experiencing racial trauma, discrimination, and institutionalized harm. Education can be an act of resistance and empowerment, laying a foundation for individuals to understand better the systems and policies articulating the barriers to access in their lives. Advocacy and community engagement can act as a healing modality for treating minority stress, racial stress and the trauma of discrimination and oppression” (Bartlett et al., 2021). 

From an attachment lens, hope has always been relational. Bowlby (1988) states that our capacity for trust, safety, and emotional regulation starts with our earliest attachments. When those relationships are reliable and responsive, we learn that others can be a source for comfort and stability. In adulthood, that foundation extends into the communities that we’re a part of. In a world filled with disconnection, polarization, and grief, our community becomes a kind of safe haven for us to restore and share suffering, support, and understanding. Community becomes a place where we can experience safety, belonging, and mutual care. Moments like gathering around shared meals or checking in on one another remind us that maintaining hope is not work we can do on our own. When we gather, give, grieve, and hold space for one another through hard times, it’s a reminder that hope doesn’t grow in isolation, but through relationship, solidarity, and shared humanity. 

Sources: 

https://www.icsw.edu/icsw_blog/bowlbys-attachment-theory-and-psychodynamic-therapy

Bartlett A, Faber S, Williams M, Saxberg K. Getting to the Root of the Problem: Supporting Clients With Lived-Experiences of Systemic Discrimination. Chronic Stress (Thousand Oaks). 2022 Nov 21;6:24705470221139205. doi: 10.1177/24705470221139205. PMID: 36439647; PMCID: PMC9685113. 

Hansson A, HilleråS P, Forsell Y. What kind of self-care strategies do people report using and is there an association with well-being? Soc Indic Res. 2005; 73(1): 133–139. 10.1007/s11205-004-0995-3 

Tzu S. The art of war. In: Mahnken TG, Maiolo JA, eds. Strategic studies: A reader. Routledge; 2008: 63–91. 

Washington HA. Medical apartheid: The dark history of medical experimentation on Black Americans from colonial times to the present. Doubleday; 2006. 

Meet Your Therapist: Clinician Spotlight Series – Vy

What are one or two interventions that you enjoy using and have found to be supportive to clients?   

I mainly draw from attachment theory, Emotion-Focused Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Narrative Therapy. Whether working with individuals or couples, this might look like us getting curious together about how past relationships show up in your life today, slowing down to really notice and work through your emotions, focusing on small and meaningful steps toward the changes you want, and exploring new ways of telling your story that feel more authentic and empowering. As a relational therapist, I also believe that the relationship clients and therapist build together to be the catalyst for change. We can sit in the therapy room all day and use the most advanced interventions, but nothing is as healing as the relationship. I focus on creating a warm, collaborative, and culturally attuned space where clients feel seen, heard, and understood, and the therapeutic relationship itself becomes a source of insight, growth, and lasting change. 

What are your favorite clients to work with (populations of special interest)?   

I provide culturally affirming therapy for BIPOC and LGBTQ+ individuals and couples, offering a safe, supportive space where one’s identities, experiences, and cultural background are honored. I specialize in helping clients navigate cultural and systemic challenges, family expectations, and the complex balance of multiple identities while staying authentic to themselves. I also support children of immigrants, first-generation adults, multicultural, and multiracial clients through major life transitions, relationships, or in exploring identity, helping clients process their experiences, embrace their roots, and find their voice. My goal is to provide therapy that is inclusive, collaborative, compassionate, and tailored to the unique needs of BIPOC and LGBTQ+ communities. 

What inspired you to become a therapist? 

If you’re reading this, you’ve probably realized how challenging it can be to find a BIPOC, Asian American, and/or neurodivergent therapist. Experiencing this as a client myself inspired me to become the kind of therapist I wish I had. As a neurodivergent Asian American daughter of immigrant parents, I understand how complex it can be to balance family expectations, cultural values, and feeling “in between” worlds. I know how vulnerable it can feel to share your story, and I feel honored to witness my clients’ courage and growth. My hope is to create a space where you feel fully seen, deeply understood, and empowered to write the next chapter of your life on your own terms. 

What insurance(s) do you accept? 

I accept individuals and couples with OHP, Providence (individuals only), Blue Cross Blue Shield, Regence, and Kaiser 

What have you learned from your work / collaboration as a therapist working with individuals and communities?  

What I’ve learned from my time as a therapist is that people are incredibly resilient, even when they don’t always feel that way. I’ve seen how healing grows in safe, supportive relationships and how much it matters to have your story heard and valued. Working with multicultural communities, including children of immigrants and first-generation adults, has reminded me that therapy isn’t about fixing anyone; it’s about walking alongside people as they make sense of their experiences, connect with their strengths, and move toward a life that feels true to who they are.